To Peg or Not To Peg

The thought of having anal sex with a woman is a big turn on for most men. Just the thought of pressing their manhood into the tiny hole of a wife or a girlfriend, or maybe even a Co work will drive them nuts with desire. How often haven't we heard the expression "oups, I slippt" when he is taking us from behind and just happens to enter the "wrong" hole?

I say it's time for us women to get our piece of the anal sex fantasy, yes! Ladies, I suggest you introduce the man in your life to PEGGING.

"Oh no, he will never go for that," you say. I say, you don't know until you have tried. Men are full of surprises and with the internet at home, in our jobs and in our phones I am sure most men know what pegging is, or at least have an idea what it is. They might have seen it as a video clip or a scene in a porno movie. Maybe your man has a secret desire, but you will never find out if you don't ask him.

A lot of men believe pegging makes them homosexual. This is complete and utter BS. In my opinion and that of many other women, pegging is about changing roles in the bed. The dominant, who penetrates (man) becomes the sub (penetrated), this can be an enormous turn on both for you and your man. You get to be in charge, you get to control his orgasm while he has to let go of his need to control the sex.

What about orgasms? If you stimulate his prostate at the same time as his cock he will have an orgasm he will never forget. It is even possible for him to have an ejaculation without and orgasm during pegging. As for you, if you use a double Strap On you will be able to reach an orgasm together with your man.

What do you need? A strap on, a lot of lube and plenty of time. Why the time? You can't just ram your strap on into him, it will hurt too much (we women should know), you have to be gentle, first a finger, then another, followed by the dildo. Nice and easy.

Good positions for pegging:
I like spooning if it's the first time for him. Just lie behind him, both of you on your sides. Pull his leg over yours and then slowly penetrate him.
Missionary is also good for beginners, and it gives you great access to his cock for extra stimulation. Being able to look each other in the eyes is a real turn on.
Doggy style is good when you have done it a few times. I totally agree with that its a very sexy position for anal sex, but since he is in a somewhat awkward position it might be hard for him to relax.
Riding, same thing here as in doggy style, a very sexy position, plus the benefit of having his cock close. He can ride up and down as he pleases, but if he loses balance, it might hurt a lot.

Tips for the men: When you feel the dildo against your anus, and this might sound strange, try to push out, yes, exactly like if you were on the toilet. Don't hold your breath, breath normal.
Communicate with her, tell her if it hurts, or if you want it slower or faster.
Choose a dildo with a small cock-head or none whatsoever (torpedo look).

Happy pegging!
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I am back on Smashwords

As of yesterday I have three books on Smashwords. They have previously been available ONLY on Amazon. I will release books in March, April and May to Smashwords and their partners.

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Why do some men assume...

Last night I went out with a couple of girlfriends for a few drinks and dancing. It had been a long time since I did and I was looking forward to it.
Where I live there are not many people around during the winter. It is a summer resort and from May to August the place is packed with good looking men and women. There is hardly a place to sit in the bars and clubs.
During the winter months there are only a few places open so there aren't many choices. We decided on a bar where we had been before and headed out around 10pm.

I was dressed in jeans, a jumper and a leather jacket and on my feet I had leather boots. Nothing too fancy, but I felt good. My friends were similarly dressed. No heavy make up and no "fuck me heels". We found a table and sat down, after a few drinks we were brave enough to hit the dance floor and by that time the place was packed. A couple of guys were eyeing us from the bar. I would guess they were in their late thirties, pretty good looking and locals. I had seen one of them before in the same place.

Anyway, when we finished dancing and were back at our table, and the two men came over and offered us some drinks. We declined since we already had fresh drinks on the table. We did invite them to sit down though, and the evening continued. Around midnight the men asked us if we wanted a round of shots and we agreed it would be nice. Jagaer Meister all around and down the hatch! Another round, and another round. When they wanted to buy a fourth round we declined and decided water would be a good idea.

At the end of the evening when we were leaving one of the men asked me if I would like to come over to his place. He was standing so close to me, I could feel his hard on against my leg. For a second I thought about it, but decided against it and told him I had to wake up early. He asked again, but I declined. Then he got upset, saying that he and his buddy had bought us drinks and I should be appreciative. I told him I thought it had been nice of them, but we hadn't asked for them to invite us. He then got even closer to me and whispered, something about "he knew a way I could show my appreciation back at his place." That was what made me explode. I told him in a lot of four lettered words where he could put his drinks, and walked out to where my friends were waiting.

Why do some men assume just because they buy you a drink they have the right to get lucky? A drink doesn’t equal sex, does it? If I see that guy or his buddy again, I'm walking out.

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Soon to come: Natasha Extreme

It has been some time since I last wrote on this blog. I have been doing marketing and research on how to get my more extreme Erotica published and I believe I have found a solution.

I will be publishing on Amazon as usual, but at the same time I will publish other books directly on this blog. The books will be sold exclusively here and at no other outlet. Some will be short stories, some will be collections of stories and other will be novellas. What they have in common is that they are more graphic in their content. I will use the same themes as in my other books and maybe even try something new.

The books can be purchased using PayPal.

The reason I have decided to do this is because last year two of my books were taken off Amazon due to their graphic content. They were selling very well, but after I censured them a bit sales dropped of. I strongly believe there is a market for Erotica which is tastefully graphic in content.

Please check back here for updates.

Writing in diffrent Erotica Genres

In how many ways can you describe a sex scene between a man and a woman?

You got your basic positions, you add some oral sex, maybe a lot of caressing and kissing, some sweet words or maybe some dirty words. Don’t forget the thundering hearts and the nails running down their backs.

When I started off writing Erotica earlier this year a choose a very plain theme: a young woman from a sheltered life moving to the big city where she met people with a lot more experience which opened up her eyes. The novella became the Nat Smiley series.

In these stories the sex is very plain, nothing spectacular apart from some big male parts and some very nice bodies, but the story’s are basically about a young woman having regular sex and learning from new experiences.

When it was time to write something new I felt I had to look at other sub genre within Erotica where I could explore more. I wrote the two books on TGirls, and two on Strap On sex. Why?

First of all, the writers who have written a lot of Erotica and are very successful say you should never use your own experiences. Why? Because they are just plain vanilla, everyone has done it. What you need to do is write about amazing sex, things most people might fantasize about but will never do, and that will become a better book. I followed this advice and wrote the books I mention above, and guess what? They sold a lot better than the Nat Smiley series. I have never been with a transvestite, I have never had strap on sex, so how do I write about it? Well, it’s called imagination, I imagined I was one of those characters and thought about what I would do, or how I would react in certain situations. 

I think that Erotica writers should try to write something outside their regular Genre, if you write about Bondage, try some Taboo for example. It makes your sex scene come alive because you are coming at them from a different angle, it lets you use your imagination in a different way and it shows in your writing. Now, certain genres might not appeal to you, for example I don’t write about Alien sex or similar because I don’t find it interesting. 

I also suggest that trying a different genre might make you some extra sales, because if you are lucky you hit on a lot of people's fantasy and there might not be many books under that topic.

Others say you should stick to your genre because that is what the readers expect when they see your name. True, I totally agree, but by writing in a different genre you might find new readers that after reading your book look at other titles and find a book under a different genre which they find interesting and buy, you never know what fantasies a person might have.